Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship

The Gottmans rule! All couples considering marriage should have to attend a Gottman workshop. And all couples should 'top-up' regularly with any of a range of Gottman materials available. The books are a great foundation and are really worth a read. If either of you are non-readers, though, I've found that the video/workshop reached my husband in a way the books couldn't. I've read a lot of books on relating, marriage and the like, but these offer the most effective and research-supported tools by far!

Good book with helpful information written in an easy to read manner. I recommend this to any couple trying to work out problems.

Excellent

Well researched, clearly written, practical, insightful, useful, provides clear guidelines, usefull questionaires and check lists, appropriate for couples' self therapy, counsellors use, and couples groups.