Choosing Clarity: The Path to Fearlessness

I'm tired of rehashing the past, looking for reasons that might be causing me problems now, so when I heard some of Kimberly Giles' tools for looking at myself, others and the world around me, I knew right away that they resonated with me. I bought her book and discovered tools that helped immediately. Each chapter addresses a core human issue and then gives an example of how to think about it in a healthy, authentic way. Now that I understand the basic fears that drive most behaviors, I can step back from a painful situation and respond with kindness. This book taught me, among other things, that I have value and criticism from others doesn't change that value. Pain is inevitable in this life, but I now have a way to move forward in a healthy and meaningful way. I have learned to let go of some of my fears and I already feel a significant change in my relationships.

This is a fabulous book. Understanding we are either in love or fear mindset is powerful. It’s life changing. It creates accountability and responsibility for your own thoughts and how to change them. I love how see teachers you your value is unchangeable. No amount of bad treatment can change your worth. It happens to the best of us, she helps us regain it back. I just wish the author would create an Audible version of this book. I think see could reach so many more people.

Last year I found Kimberly Giles' advice column in our paper. And what she said just made sense. I went to her websites and saw that she was coming out with a book. I signed up to be notified once it was published. I love her perspective. She speaks truth. Through assignments in the book, she teaches me how to take responsibility but through love. To love myself, and to see others with love. She has taught me that other people's bad behavior is a result of their insecurities and that empowers me to be more patient. I recommend this book to everyone and anyone. Through her coaching, I am becoming more confident and recognizing my choice through daily decisions.

I have read this more than once. It has really taught me that I use fear of not being good enough my whole life.

This book has been a true blessing. It helped me to see life and its challenges in a new light and perspective. The principles it teaches ring true. I have found a great deal of hope,peace, and joy by applying its principles along with scripture study, prayer and service to others. This book helped to pull me from a very dark time in my life. I am grateful to the author for writing this book and sharing simple but profound truths.

Very interesting concept of human behavior . Not sure of the concept using the classroom concept as I’ve never been in one that didn’t include testing which is contrary to the authors point.

By far the best self-help book I have ever read. Written simply and clearly and gives straightforward advice that WORKS on how to overcome fear, anxiety, grieving, and how to forgive, love others, and most importantly - love yourself. I have bought this book and sent it to three other people so far.. I cannot sing its praises loud enough. I want to call from the mountaintops to tell everyone to read this book. Seriously. It is that good.

The advice and steps for self help in this book have been life changing for me. Choosing Clarity taught me how to communicate more effectively and how to improve my own thought processes. This is a book I have shared with friends and gone back to many times myself.