How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul Hardcover – Deckle Edge, February 14, 2011

First, a little bit about me & why I purchased this book.I'm a 35 yo female, recently divorced single mom. I'm currently in a twisted FWB relationship with a guy who's in another committed relationship (I know...don't judge). I am a converted Catholic and since my divorce, I've been in an emotional whirlwind. Long story short, the suggestion for this book came from my Lent devotion for the day from Matthew Kelly. I took it as a sign from God and bought it. Now as for the book:If you are sexually adventurous / okay with you're sexually active relationships, you're going to hate this book!I started reading and right away I felt attacked for wanting to explore my promiscuity. I am going through a "Prodigal Son" phase right now, but I know that right now I don't want a committed relationship because my divorced caused me so much pain and trauma. However, this guy that I'm "friends" with, I really like and we can talk all day/every day but i can feel the stress and strain of us not being an actual relationship.The book is one giant lecture on chastity. "Keep your legs closed and hopefully you'll find a man that respects that". The End.NOW...I will admit that the book has shaken me from my sinful slumber and I want to re-learn how to respect myself and my body again as a woman of Christ, however if you're not ready for this book's hard message then I would suggest you only purchase it if you are. Unfortunately we live in "hook up" culture, this book was written over 10 years ago. It's a hard pill to swallow, but I would pass this book on to my daughter when she gets older. It speaks from the Christian heart and the writers do want you to find someone that WANTS you for you and not just for sex. Like I said, I hated it at first, but it was so intriguing that I read the book in 2 days.

I would recommend this book to everyone no matter the age. It's really good and tells a lot of truths that usually are not shared.Works great as a gift!.

I like that this is designed to scare teenagers (girls) into being gate keepers of their own virtue, and birds to think twice before diving in. However, it's wrong, just plain wrong "smooth criminal" "troubled youth" "age difference" as reasons for girls to run!? Insane. People overcome hardship and can withstand adversity when they do, guys that don't pursue a girl but give in aren't bad and if you have an issue then talk with him, and just because there's some years between you doesn't mean you aren't soulmates! The fact that these parts even made it to print shows the author's inept understanding of humanity as they try to thump the reader. I agree that all of us need to do better to treat each other with virtues, but this book starts downright judgmental and when taken to heart doesn't lead to better communication but to breakups. Bad form. I was hoping a catholic would be more like Jesus and encourage sinners to move towards marriage and away from sin, but it was the stereotypical judgmental stances meanwhile virtue signaling to each other (husband and wife authors) that one would not be surprised to read.

Giving us both sides of the story, this man and woman duo are witty, charming, blunt when necessary, and always realistic and honest about how to find your soulmate without losing your soul. Combined, the Everts have experience from mistakes and good choices alike, plus the testimonies of thousands of young men and women who've heard the Everts speak and shared their own stories, fears, and heartbreak. The advice feels like it's coming from a loving father and mother, uncle and aunt, brother and sister or really close friends who care deeply about you, and personally I turned to their words to give me courage and reassurance that I was doing the right thing even if it was so hard. Their 21 secrets have something for every girl, and their love is a living, breathing testimony to the truth of their advice. If you've messed up, read this. If you're feeling lost, read this. If you've been perfect and mistake-free, read this. If you're female and yearning for love (or in love already), read this. Whether you're religious or not, whether you're the one in need of some tough love or it's someone you care for and worry about, these two have sage advice that can reassure, guide, and encourage you. Buy it for yourself, your sisters, your friends, your cousins, your nieces, aunts, book club, religious or social group, or any other ladies you love. Because love is what this book is about, and it is lovingly given.

This is a book that I had originally bought for my young daughter who is just about to go to Secondary school and embark on a new journey of life. I read it first and I was totally captivated by its ethos from the first chapter.As a mum, I can only re-iterate the importance of this book for both young boys and girls equally, and any woman whose love script has changed and not ended in the happy ever after.This book explores the importance of Christian values within relationships and staying true to our moral compass in order to maintain self respect and flush out the 'users'. Anecdotes from both a male and a female perspective is enlightening. I wish that I had access to this book in my adolescence which may have curtailed many a heartache and loss of self respect, but thankfully, with this book and my experiences, I hope to enrich my young daughter's life and hopefully provide her with the tools that will make her relationships happy connections, and a strong sense of self that will not be swayed by peers or any other hormone bouncing male just looking for a fun time.Additionally, for the older woman, it re-instates a sense of self worth. Wow! There really is a lot to be said for going back to traditional values in order to start looking after ourselves and our young ones in the right way!!!!!!I have already passed this on to my friends who likewise are sharing this book with theirs. READ IT!

My teen liked the book so much that she loaned it out, then asked for another one. It help keep their mind directed on what Gods calls us to instead of the ever changing world views.

Amazing guide to christian dating in our modern world and drawing healthy houndaries throughout your life.Absolutely love the honesty and boldness in how they convey what should be expected and that which is degrading to womens mental space.How they speak about women and men is so respectful, honest, and loving. It has a beautiful grounding in the catholic faith. Every christian woman and otherwise should read this book. Great wisdom.

Wonderful! Nice to ride!Perfect for teenagers but Good for adult too.I loved this book! This is smart and lovely.Good writer!

This book is a must have for young women to keep as a referral and guidance through their life. I appreciate how every issue a woman faces during high school is covered. The tone of the book made me feel as if a good friend was talking to me. I wish I had this book while I was in high school. I could have benefited from this book as it explains a lot and has the ability to clear confusion from young minds. I will pass this book to my daughter before she enters high school.

I got it for my daughters, it was a recommendation from a friend. My daughter still hasn't read it though....

Excellent book, with a Catholic perspective. Highly recommend it!