Coping with Erectile Dysfunction: How to Regain Confidence and Enjoy Great Sex

I'm a therapist and I treat erectile "dysfunction" (this term is actually becoming dated and politically incorrect). Although books can't do the work that you need to do in therapy, I find this to be an invaluable resource that I have many of my clients purchase. Most erectile dysfunction can be treated with various cognitive and mindfulness-based therapies, and this book does a good job of summarizing, in plain language, lots of the basics and mechanics of this very treatable and very common problem.

This book is very well written and informative. It looks at ED from all angels and supports the idea that we are made for relationship and that when we are close, connected and relaxed the best possible outcomes are possible.

the information is very direct and very useful. I found out what i needed to know in about the first 15 minutes of reading. I highly recommend that anyone feeling they have this problem READ THIS INFORMATION but with some realization that your problem(s) may or may not be physical but also emotional and from lack of intimacy ... CHECK IT OUT GUYS

a must read for any couple interested in maintaining thier sex life, guys, don't try to go this issue alone. This book is for not only you, but for for your partner too

Insufficient info on cognitive/rational emotive self help tools to counter act the ED problem.

informative, empowering book. breaks down causes of ed and gives strategies to beat it. when ed is severe, it offers help on how to choose professional help. helped me hone in on the root cause of my ed and killed the anxiety about it. offers relationship advice too, which is tied in with ed. I'd want to read this book even if i didn't have ed, just to learn more about myself.

This is another great book to help you deal with the problems that can occur due to Low T. It can help show your partner that his problem is shared by many others and how they have dealt with their problems and how he too can learn to deal with his. It is a great tool to have in helping him through the process of healing. It can also show us, as their partner, how to deal with and make less of the stress of dealing with a problem that affects both of you.

There are lots of books on the subject of feminine disfunction, but this is the only one that appears to actually address a man's potential issues, both physical and psychological. Women could benefit from reading it, as well. It also reads easily.

I learnt some really useful things from this book: - that the penis becomes erect during sex but then quickly goes flaccid again. It "takes a break". This is normal and it easily regains its hardness again later. However many men get anxious and worried about "failing" because of this and try desperately to keep it constantly hard. - the statistics show that married couples and people in long term monogamous relationships have better sex lives than others (that came as a surprise) The author says at one point that men worry that the new model of male sexuality means that their sexuality has been made more female i.e. More slow-time, touch-feely. I can see why men might think this. Anyway this book has certainly given me more insights into what is really going on when a man has his panties round his ankles.

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ein ausgesprochen hilfreiches Buch für alle Betroffenen... Sehr verständlich geschrieben, nachvollziehbar und nach entsprechenden Tests mit konkreten Lösungsansätzen versehen. Man merkt sofort, dass hier wirklich Therapeuten tätig waren, die aufgrund ihrer langjährigen Praxis wissen wovon Sie schreiben. Wir haben uns intensiv mit dieser Thematik beschäftigt und haben neben vielerlei Informationen reale Hilfestellungen angeboten bekommen, die umsetzbar sind und das Problem tatsächlich lösen können. Ein wunderbares Buch. Danke!

The emphasis in this book is squarely on heterosexual, long-term partners, with little practical advice for a man who is trying to deal with this on his own. The mindful masturbation tip was somewhat helpful, but I would not recommend it.

It worked for us. A great explanation to a complex yet simple problem and really helped us to move on with every thing else.